Family therapy works by identifying the patterns developed by families due to a loved one’s drug use, such as enabling behaviors, poor communication, and unexpressed resentment that has caused harm to everyone involved.[4]
These patterns were likely created as a result of attempting to cope or protect someone else from the effects of addiction. However, these patterns can ultimately hurt recovery efforts. Family therapy opens the discussion of these dynamics and allows the family to identify areas for collective change. An integral part of this work is psychoeducation, which involves educating families about substance use disorders as a medical condition versus a moral failing.[5]
Educating families about addiction allows them to gain understanding and compassion for their loved ones instead of anger or frustration, and to transition from providing assistance that prevents recovery to offering help that supports recovery.
Once families understand addiction and have empathy for their loved ones, therapy progresses towards teaching practical skills needed to repair dysfunctional relationships.[6]
Practical skills taught include:
- Improved communication techniques
- Developing strategies for resolving conflicts
- Learning how to establish boundaries that protect the person in recovery and the remaining family members
Other practical skills involve helping families recognize unhealthy behaviors and find new ways to support their loved ones that will promote true progress.
All of these components exist together in Agape Detox Center’s larger continuum of care (detox, residential treatment, dual diagnosis treatment, and aftercare). Since each family system is unique, our clinicians design each session according to the specific needs of your family and your relationships.
Our ultimate goal is to help families understand the role that substance use disorders play in their relationships and work together toward positive changes that support everyone’s well-being.